mama見將近冬天, 於是便請同事織女何小姐, 為paobb織一雙手套...
在此要感謝何小姐, 不眠不休, 犧牲學日文, 打機和拍拖時間, 為paobb趕工織出冷手套...
奈何, paobb似乎對溫暖牌有點抗拒...
本想拍一張paobb戴上溫暖牌織物的相...但和這小子拉鋸數十分鐘都未能成功...
最終更以大喊收場....
(何小姐....我會繼續努力, 務必拍一張給你交差做wall paper....)
有心的何小姐每年一度返鄉下, 遠道由東洋為paobb帶來手信----面包超人寫字板
喊罷扁著咀玩寫字板...玩時還是淚眼汪汪...
有新玩具....多謝何小姐!
很專心...寫寫寫....畫畫畫...大筆一揮寫什麼呢?
mama小時很渴望擁有這些"神奇畫板"...但對當年的家來說, 這絕對是一件奢侈的玩具...
paobb有了這塊神奇畫板....可能會好奇貪新鮮玩上一陣子...
到paobb玩膩了....mama也會將這份禮物珍而重之...
多謝何小姐帶來這玩具填補mama的童年遺缺...
2009年11月20日
14個月8日大的paobb, 終於肯放手自己開步行...
看見懂得行的paobb令媽媽百感交集...
一方面是paobb真的敢摔開mama的手...為paobb的第一步而感到興奮...
另一方面, 亦是因為paobb會摔開mama的手...感覺這小子好像長大了...想到paobb很快不再需要mama牽著他的小手... 很快便會有自己的天地, 自己的世界...不再依賴mama...更令mama加倍感觸...
期望paobb他日會行會走, 也記得要拖緊mama的手...
mama就是極愛與你手牽手的親密感覺...
遇上寒流...paobb要披上熊衣保暖...
超級愛吃橙的熊...遇橙便瘋狂的吃...
平日的維園四野無人...帶paobb去散步及追逐白鴿...感覺悠閒...超爽
懂行就能自主選擇...行走自如的paobb在公園內左碰右碰, 對平日觸不到的東西更感好奇...玩個不亦樂乎!
2009年11月12日
剛滿14個月的paobb病倒了...
持續兩天的低燒...
沒有其他發病的徵狀...沒鼻水, 咳...
但胃口就全沒了...一整天只願吃數口粥...奶也吃不完, 每次吃了三分二便罷了..
斷斷續續原因不明的低燒...最令人擔心...
低燒中的病樣....面又瘦了點...
兩日後終於退燒了...身上出了風癩....但又不是玫瑰疹...醫生說可能是皮膚敏感...要勤換床單等用品....有潔癖的mama已每星期清洗寢具...還不算勤嗎?
希望小病是福...看見病倒不適的paobb真令人心痛...!
近期最愛搶電話扮聽...帶病中仍要處理繁忙業務...樣子傻傻的...很好笑!
MicMic媽咪從blog中得知paobb不願進食, 於是搜集各媽媽級的意見, 為mama提供詳盡對策....
以下為Mic Mic媽咪提供的BB餵食心得 Do's & Don'ts...原文節錄如下... 與大家分享...
Do's
(1) good mood - if bb is too sleepy/tired, would usually doesn't eat well & being cranky, so try to give him a nap before meal time.. or you may do something else to give him good mood, e.g. let him holding a favourite toy; listening to music, or even you sing...., as long as he is calm and sit down, we can start feeding
(2) good environment - bb would feel hot and then sweating, and then cranky when we feed "hot congee"..so give him some A/C if necessary...
(3) texture of the congee - before bb is able to chew properly, the texture of the congee we feed is still meshy and thick, so sometimes it is hard to swallow (and stick to their mouth and throat), so may drink couple sip of water in-between.. or even some soup, if bb likes soup
Actually most bb like soup....try to use more ingredient to intense the taste.....
(4) small portion - now bb can eat 1 bowl of congee, right? but you may pour one third at a time in a small bowl to feed.... both the bb and the mother would feel easier, emotionally
(5) use a toy - sometimes if bb refuse to eat, you may put a doll next to bb and pretending to feed the doll....maybe it is peer pressure...but sometimes bb would eat eventually
(6) parents eat in front of bb..... you know, bb just copy from adults....if bb is in a family which loves to eat, bb likes eating eventually...
(7) there must be something bb likes to eat, so go for it....
e.g., sometimes we have dinner together, while Mic eating his congee and see us adults eat rice, he'd point to the rice and refuse to eat his congee..... so I'd put 幾粒飯 on top of 每羹粥.......and it works..
(8) more solid
if bb prefers more solid than milk, you may change to 3 solid + 2 milk per day .... you may use bread or oatmeal or "Alphabet Pasta" for solid, apart from congee.... just more varieties to develop bb's interest in food la... (a hard work for mom...)
Don'ts
(1) Never say "快D食" or " 食多D" .....kind of words during feeding. BB now able to interpret and they would being 反叛 .... so 唱反調.... the more you say, the less they eat.....
(2) Don't force them and feed bb all congee no matter how long it takes..... actually it only makes bb 討厭 eating afterall.... So limit the time to 1/2 hours, if he cannot finish, just leave it... and never feed him again or give him snack until next mealtime. Usually he'd feel more hungry next mealtime, and eat better. It also works for feeding milk.
(3) If bb dislike some kind of food at a time, he may like it the next time.... so keep trying and never say "bb 唔鍾意食XXXX....", 'cos bb would dislike this food for real in the future ... (seems contradict with (1), but it is true)..
再次感激Mic Mic媽媽的專業意見....
mama會給多點耐性試行, 希望湊效...不用再做排骨仔...
dada mama沒有什麼共同嗜好, 唯大家都好杯中物...
mama在陀著paobb的10個月...及後paobb出世的7個月因要餵人奶而戒掉一切酒精, 咖啡, 可樂, 奶茶, 朱古力....等最愛飲料...
苦守清淡飲食一年零五個月....一待停餵人奶後, mama的身體對久違了的禁品異常渴求....解禁的這半年以來, mama一有機會便盡情的飲...
10月31日旅發局在西九辦美酒佳餚年, dada mama帶著paobb, 走到老遠去飲酒, 一同湊熱鬧....
雖為下午時間, 但場內人頭湧湧....男女老幼均有...想不到香港嗜酒的人是那麼多....
看見dada mama拿著酒杯, paobb一見酒就相當興奮....莫非paobb也愛酒?
paobb 好認真做品酒的步驟....先來望一下....
再來聞一下....好陶醉!
最後轉一轉酒杯...
完成後...酒就往dada mama肚裏送....paobb唯有以水當酒, 及咬膠杯自娛...
dada mama在場內不停試酒, 玩了數小時, paobb給予很大的耐性, 一直靜靜的坐在車內等候, 等得悶了便打個呵欠解悶...
這天要多謝paobb的充份合作, 讓dada mama與美酒享受了一個美好的下午...!
paobb一天一天的長大, 每天都會帶給dada mama無限驚喜和激氣...
(10月31日)
paobb終於很清晰的講到"baba"(與爸爸同音...但又不代表是他的爸, 不知代表什麼!)
"mama" (尚好知道mama就是我)
"meow meow" (知道代表貓)...
其餘教paobb的字如餅餅, 飽飽, 包, 水, 頭, 眼, 鼻, 手, 耳, 腳, 鞋, 奶, 車, 狗, 公仔....等等日常生活常見的物件或做的事情, 他都知道代表什麼, 只是還未懂得開口講....發音最準的是"baba"....
雖然能講的不多, 第一次聽見paobb準確的"講""baba"....還是讓mama開心都彈起!
最令dada mama激心的, 不是paobb的頑皮搗蛋...而是paobb食得少和不愛吃的"壞習慣"...
每天三餐奶, 兩餐粥, paobb一向愛吃固體多於吃奶...每餐粥也可吃一個飯碗的份量...
但最近數天, paobb差不多"絕吃練仙"一樣, 每餐的粥只吃了三份一, 便閉咀不吃...
坐在餐椅上左擰右擰....任你如何好言相勸, 或是惡言恐嚇, paobb都絕不賣帳....
一餐飯可以跟你糾纏一小時...
看到paobb經常絕食....dada 每次都急得大動肝火, 有時也忍不住要體罸paobb....
但天生硬頸的小子只會愈哭愈厲害....誓要用眼淚攻破dada mama的圍牆妥協為止....
對於管教行為, mama還有一線把握...
要管paobb的食量, mama就真的束手無策...不貪吃比貪吃更是一個難題....!!!!!
難道不愛吃也有遺傳的嗎?
dada mama小時候也是排骨仔, 排骨妹...
mama 小時候吃飯也只愛白飯, 白粥撈豉油....
吃雲吞麵就只食淨米粉, 齋得不能再齋....
今天的paobb不愛吃, 也很難怪責他...
只怪他好學不學, 遺傳了dada mama的不愛吃基因...
中秋過後, 天氣明顯轉涼...這種天氣最好就是到郊外活動, 總好過整天困在商場...
paobb出世前, dada mama會選擇行山...行完山一身舒爽的感覺特別暢快...有了paobb, 行山暫時是不可能的選擇, 唯有選擇一些較"輕易"的親子戶外活動...
10月份以來, 每逢週末, mama dada 都帶paobb到效外走一走...
10月4日(星期日) - 科大
dada說是帶paobb參觀未來的學校 (幼兒園還未選定....大學? 還有漫漫長路呢!)...
mama一向都喜歡科大的校園, 夠大夠新, 設施完善...加上無敵海景...若能在這裏讀書的確份外醒神...
paobb, 這樣的大學你喜歡嗎?
原來每逢假日, 有許多父母都帶bb來這裏玩, 變成另類playground....
校內的休憩地方四處皆是...靚草地任由paobb趴和爬....
10月18日(星期日) - 塱原濕地農莊+流浮山+挪亞方舟
趁屋苑舉辦一日遊, 有車接送, 包午餐, 入場費...不用自己舟車勞動...親子遊的首選...
農場不是很大, 但可餵羊咩咩吃草...paobb首次與羊咩咩近距離接觸...
有充沛陽光....加上涼涼的秋風....paobb都心情大爽...
第一次催花....
第一次看見最愛吃的香蕉掛在樹上....
不停拉著mama的手要人帶著行....累死我了!
玩夠了....要轉場到挪亞方舟
mama還在研究路線...paobb便開始要與周公相會....
剛好瞓醒, 被畫大花臉....
無時停, 經常要逃跑...帶paobb外遊一整日, mama骨頭都散了....
10月24日(星期六) - 山頂
相約4B山頂半天遊...
出發前, 先與兩美B女及B媽合照...
遊伴一: 書不離手的昭妍...玩也玩得有書卷味...
遊伴二 : 剛好9個月大的卓琳... ...
遊伴三: 昭妍的五個月大表妹淋淋...又是美人兒一個...
遊伴四: 大隻MicMic, 正示範從維園阿伯身上學來的虎爪拳....
開步前....一眾媽媽先"放牛"...餵奶, 換片, 換衫....一片混亂!
行到風景最靚之處, paobb又是倒頭大睡....唯有在睡夢中與香港靚景合照...
每次外遊, paobb都成為蚊蟲的襲擊目標....手腳都塗滿防蚊液, 就是這個大頭防不勝防...咬得一臉的紅印....每次都"收穫"豐富....!
由9月paobb踏入一歲開始, mama便一直的公私兩忙...忙到blog也發了霉....
公事方面....公司慶祝35週年, 要做的事多得很, 基本上所有同事都做到反肚....其實mama所屬部門已較為幸運, 頂多是返工時做到冇停手, 或做極都做不完, 或是改完又改....改到出街一刻都仲改...改到一肚氣!
但其他部門的同事, 卻要連接數星期的週末也要開工, 做足7日, 真係做到癲....所以全公司人人做到人唔似人...怨氣沖天....認真可憐....!
私事方面...週六、日mama就忙著和paobb搵節目...正值10月份是找學校的黃金季節....mama都湊湊熱鬧, 到區內數間學校視察一下...但目前還是未有心水目標....要待進一步研究! 想起要替paobb找學校, 找playgroup, 找這找那.....一連串的"事務"....真的很頭痛!
10月真的秋高氣爽....就趁這些涼爽日子, 和paobb多到戶外跑....好讓大家都透透氣....
時間過得飛快....眨眼paobb已13個月了! 現在開始是個挑皮小男孩....精力無窮....在家中老是破壞搗蛋...少點精力也很難去跟他"應酬"...
每天在公司作戰一輪, 回家後與paobb又是另一場硬戰....還那有時間呢!
一個blog的發霉, 背後總有它的原因...
