2009年11月20日
14個月8日大的paobb, 終於肯放手自己開步行...
看見懂得行的paobb令媽媽百感交集...
一方面是paobb真的敢摔開mama的手...為paobb的第一步而感到興奮...
另一方面, 亦是因為paobb會摔開mama的手...感覺這小子好像長大了...想到paobb很快不再需要mama牽著他的小手... 很快便會有自己的天地, 自己的世界...不再依賴mama...更令mama加倍感觸...
期望paobb他日會行會走, 也記得要拖緊mama的手...
mama就是極愛與你手牽手的親密感覺...
遇上寒流...paobb要披上熊衣保暖...
超級愛吃橙的熊...遇橙便瘋狂的吃...
平日的維園四野無人...帶paobb去散步及追逐白鴿...感覺悠閒...超爽
懂行就能自主選擇...行走自如的paobb在公園內左碰右碰, 對平日觸不到的東西更感好奇...玩個不亦樂乎!
2009年11月12日
剛滿14個月的paobb病倒了...
持續兩天的低燒...
沒有其他發病的徵狀...沒鼻水, 咳...
但胃口就全沒了...一整天只願吃數口粥...奶也吃不完, 每次吃了三分二便罷了..
斷斷續續原因不明的低燒...最令人擔心...
低燒中的病樣....面又瘦了點...
兩日後終於退燒了...身上出了風癩....但又不是玫瑰疹...醫生說可能是皮膚敏感...要勤換床單等用品....有潔癖的mama已每星期清洗寢具...還不算勤嗎?
希望小病是福...看見病倒不適的paobb真令人心痛...!
近期最愛搶電話扮聽...帶病中仍要處理繁忙業務...樣子傻傻的...很好笑!
MicMic媽咪從blog中得知paobb不願進食, 於是搜集各媽媽級的意見, 為mama提供詳盡對策....
以下為Mic Mic媽咪提供的BB餵食心得 Do's & Don'ts...原文節錄如下... 與大家分享...
Do's
(1) good mood - if bb is too sleepy/tired, would usually doesn't eat well & being cranky, so try to give him a nap before meal time.. or you may do something else to give him good mood, e.g. let him holding a favourite toy; listening to music, or even you sing...., as long as he is calm and sit down, we can start feeding
(2) good environment - bb would feel hot and then sweating, and then cranky when we feed "hot congee"..so give him some A/C if necessary...
(3) texture of the congee - before bb is able to chew properly, the texture of the congee we feed is still meshy and thick, so sometimes it is hard to swallow (and stick to their mouth and throat), so may drink couple sip of water in-between.. or even some soup, if bb likes soup
Actually most bb like soup....try to use more ingredient to intense the taste.....
(4) small portion - now bb can eat 1 bowl of congee, right? but you may pour one third at a time in a small bowl to feed.... both the bb and the mother would feel easier, emotionally
(5) use a toy - sometimes if bb refuse to eat, you may put a doll next to bb and pretending to feed the doll....maybe it is peer pressure...but sometimes bb would eat eventually
(6) parents eat in front of bb..... you know, bb just copy from adults....if bb is in a family which loves to eat, bb likes eating eventually...
(7) there must be something bb likes to eat, so go for it....
e.g., sometimes we have dinner together, while Mic eating his congee and see us adults eat rice, he'd point to the rice and refuse to eat his congee..... so I'd put 幾粒飯 on top of 每羹粥.......and it works..
(8) more solid
if bb prefers more solid than milk, you may change to 3 solid + 2 milk per day .... you may use bread or oatmeal or "Alphabet Pasta" for solid, apart from congee.... just more varieties to develop bb's interest in food la... (a hard work for mom...)
Don'ts
(1) Never say "快D食" or " 食多D" .....kind of words during feeding. BB now able to interpret and they would being 反叛 .... so 唱反調.... the more you say, the less they eat.....
(2) Don't force them and feed bb all congee no matter how long it takes..... actually it only makes bb 討厭 eating afterall.... So limit the time to 1/2 hours, if he cannot finish, just leave it... and never feed him again or give him snack until next mealtime. Usually he'd feel more hungry next mealtime, and eat better. It also works for feeding milk.
(3) If bb dislike some kind of food at a time, he may like it the next time.... so keep trying and never say "bb 唔鍾意食XXXX....", 'cos bb would dislike this food for real in the future ... (seems contradict with (1), but it is true)..
再次感激Mic Mic媽媽的專業意見....
mama會給多點耐性試行, 希望湊效...不用再做排骨仔...
dada mama沒有什麼共同嗜好, 唯大家都好杯中物...
mama在陀著paobb的10個月...及後paobb出世的7個月因要餵人奶而戒掉一切酒精, 咖啡, 可樂, 奶茶, 朱古力....等最愛飲料...
苦守清淡飲食一年零五個月....一待停餵人奶後, mama的身體對久違了的禁品異常渴求....解禁的這半年以來, mama一有機會便盡情的飲...
10月31日旅發局在西九辦美酒佳餚年, dada mama帶著paobb, 走到老遠去飲酒, 一同湊熱鬧....
雖為下午時間, 但場內人頭湧湧....男女老幼均有...想不到香港嗜酒的人是那麼多....
看見dada mama拿著酒杯, paobb一見酒就相當興奮....莫非paobb也愛酒?
paobb 好認真做品酒的步驟....先來望一下....
再來聞一下....好陶醉!
最後轉一轉酒杯...
完成後...酒就往dada mama肚裏送....paobb唯有以水當酒, 及咬膠杯自娛...
dada mama在場內不停試酒, 玩了數小時, paobb給予很大的耐性, 一直靜靜的坐在車內等候, 等得悶了便打個呵欠解悶...
這天要多謝paobb的充份合作, 讓dada mama與美酒享受了一個美好的下午...!
paobb一天一天的長大, 每天都會帶給dada mama無限驚喜和激氣...
(10月31日)
paobb終於很清晰的講到"baba"(與爸爸同音...但又不代表是他的爸, 不知代表什麼!)
"mama" (尚好知道mama就是我)
"meow meow" (知道代表貓)...
其餘教paobb的字如餅餅, 飽飽, 包, 水, 頭, 眼, 鼻, 手, 耳, 腳, 鞋, 奶, 車, 狗, 公仔....等等日常生活常見的物件或做的事情, 他都知道代表什麼, 只是還未懂得開口講....發音最準的是"baba"....
雖然能講的不多, 第一次聽見paobb準確的"講""baba"....還是讓mama開心都彈起!
最令dada mama激心的, 不是paobb的頑皮搗蛋...而是paobb食得少和不愛吃的"壞習慣"...
每天三餐奶, 兩餐粥, paobb一向愛吃固體多於吃奶...每餐粥也可吃一個飯碗的份量...
但最近數天, paobb差不多"絕吃練仙"一樣, 每餐的粥只吃了三份一, 便閉咀不吃...
坐在餐椅上左擰右擰....任你如何好言相勸, 或是惡言恐嚇, paobb都絕不賣帳....
一餐飯可以跟你糾纏一小時...
看到paobb經常絕食....dada 每次都急得大動肝火, 有時也忍不住要體罸paobb....
但天生硬頸的小子只會愈哭愈厲害....誓要用眼淚攻破dada mama的圍牆妥協為止....
對於管教行為, mama還有一線把握...
要管paobb的食量, mama就真的束手無策...不貪吃比貪吃更是一個難題....!!!!!
難道不愛吃也有遺傳的嗎?
dada mama小時候也是排骨仔, 排骨妹...
mama 小時候吃飯也只愛白飯, 白粥撈豉油....
吃雲吞麵就只食淨米粉, 齋得不能再齋....
今天的paobb不愛吃, 也很難怪責他...
只怪他好學不學, 遺傳了dada mama的不愛吃基因...
